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How to improve self-image by Bob Proctor

It's a new day of the month. September has arrived like walking without noise. 8 months have gone and now the countdown has begun for the new year.


Several years ago I developed a habit that I will walk the talk. I did very well and people started noticing my honesty and loyalty. There I met some people who expected from me what I say, I have to do and they were exceptions. I kept doing my part and those people kept running away. Because of this, I was in a loss. Then I thought about it and came to the conclusion that as soon they step back I'll also. Now people started getting angry and blaming me. Then I reminded them what deal we made. After that, a very few stayed back and the rest of them disappeared.


I am in a public profession. I work on promises. And in my observation, 99 % of people break the promise about making payment after the work is done. Now I don't say anything and continue working. I focus on work and that's it.

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Bob Proctor is a world-renowned speaker, motivational coach, author of bestselling books, as well as a Law of Attraction teacher. Bob Proctor has an international reputation for getting the very best out of both people and businesses. Today we have an interesting subject to learn:

 

How to improve self-image



  • We have an image. It's how we see ourself.

  • It's not an image we see in the mirror. That's a reflection of our physical being.

  • He talks about the image in mind.

  • Cybernetic was discovered near second world war.

  • Cybernetic means science of control and communication in the animals and some machines- Definition of Cybernetics.

  • You know we have a cybernetic locked up in us.

  • Paradigms are nothing more than a multitude of ideas and habits fixed in our subconscious- Definition of Paradigms.

  • Cybernetics and paradigms are both controlled systems that operate on the same principles.

  • Both maintain a definite course of action.

  • You see people stuck at a level, there is a thermostat set at a certain level.

  • The thermostat is a cybernetic instrument.

  • You notice in a home that thermostat set at 70 and if doors are opened then the temperature falls at 65.

  • Automatically fire is on and starts to warm up home. It’s an automatic response.

  • In the same way, the thermostat is in your mind.

  • When you want to lose weight you stop eating and starving. Stop eating chocolate because you think it makes you fat.

  • If you change self-image and thinking that I'm a skinny person, you can eat anything you want and lose weight.

  • When a person goes on a diet without changing or altering the self-image, any weight he will lose will be temporary and it will come back.

His most famous book Thoughts Are Things is here.

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