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How Long Does It Take A Man To Realise What He Lost

A small story about how long does it take a man to realise what he lost. His name is John and he expresses regrets at the age of 46 years.


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  • John is a 46 years old banker.

  • John has been in the same 9- 7 job for 26 years.

  • John's wife admitted she has been cheating him for 10 years,

    the kind of girl guys regrets losing.
  • Women's biggest regret in life is that her man is so busy in his profession. She fails to understand the signs he regrets hurting her.

  • John's son doesn't feel anything for him.

  • When John's wife revealed the secret he didn't feel anything.

  • She was the kind of girl guys regret losing.

  • John wasn't angry. 

  • John realized he is dying slowly.

  • John was very passionate about his life and goals.

  • John wanted to travel the world.

  • Later John felt that financial stability is the most important in life.

  • John focused on his job and be failed in almost everything.

  • John couldn't keep his family happy.

  • After all this John was broken.


While listening to this podcast from Knowledge for men by Andrew Ferebee I felt great great regret in the tone of John. His life failed because he kept procrastinating all things for financial stability. I want to mention here from my experience that time is running so fast and you will not realize when you arrived at the 60 years of age in this fast pace life. I met several 60 years old persons and they revealed that time just slipped like grains of sand. My advice is to maintain a balance in life. If you don't then you will lose everything for only one thing like Mr John did.



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Y. K. Sikri


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